Showing posts with label self healing. Show all posts
Showing posts with label self healing. Show all posts

Saturday, 10 October 2015

How to Use Animal Totems in Self Help

How to use animal totems

 in personal growth, self healing and development

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For those of us who are searching for reasons, answers and direction in our lives, one common theme keeps reappearing. That is, the belief that there are external forces that exist that are there to help us. They are not in place to take the decisions in life for us, that would defeat the purpose which is to learn lessons, to take responsibility for your life and to grow and develop.
Once you have set your foot on this path of discovery, one of the tools you can use is to access this wisdom are animal totums. Each of us may well have a single animal who is relevant to our lives but more likely there is an animal that is germane to a particular period in your life - to one particular point in time. If they are messages - they must change.
You can construct your own animal totem cards: these are ones I have created. You may print them out onto cards and use them for a daily 'reading' - pick one each day to see what is relevant for you on that day. There are many others on sale, the best of which is the famous ones from Jamie Sams and David Carson - Medicine Cards. 

Also be aware of everything around you. The universe is designed to send us messages to help us in our personal growth towards enlightenment. If you keep seeing the same animal - perhaps on bill-boards, in dreams or in reality, or in pictures or on TV, maybe someone or something is trying to tell you something. Maybe it is your God, maybe it is your own inner wisdom, who can tell? But the messages are there, all around you when you are willing to listen. On the other side, if an animal is bugging you - if you feel an unusual aversion to it, perhaps you should look at something within yourself that is giving you that reaction. For example, if you have a phobia about spiders, are you also shying away from all that is creative within and about you? Just food for thought.
There is a saying in metaphysics -
If you listen to the whispers ... life won't have to shout at you.

Images From Wikimedia Commons

Please note the images used here are via Wiki Commons unless otherwise stated

The bear

Ursus arctos - Norway
Ursus arctos - Norway
Source: Wiki Media

The Bear as a totem animal

The BEAR - ‘STRENGTH’

Bear allows you the time to be still for a while. There is great strength within you. Perhaps you are being asked to provide a strong back for someone else to lean on. This need never drain your own power since you have the ability to delve deep inside yourself for the well of hidden strength. As you accept this strength you will find you can use it with the gentleness of bear.

The Beaver

The Beaver
The Beaver
Source: Wiki Media

The Beaver as a totem animal

The BEAVER - The ‘BUILDER’
If you have chosen beaver you will have a strong sense of family and home. While you are industrious and protective allow yourself time to view all your accomplishments. Enjoy a sense of achievement which comes with a building a strong family life that YOU helped to create. You are being asked to acknowledge your gifts. Continue to encourage a sense of community and unity in all you do.

Butterfly image

Butterfly on thistle
Butterfly on thistle
Source: photography by annmackiemiller

The Butterfly as an animal totem

The BUTTERFLY -‘TRANSFORMATION’
If you have chosen the butterfly you are ready to make changes in your life. You may not yet be aware of the direction of change but allow butterfly to lead you. It is an exciting and colourful time. The true secret of transformation is to know your own mind but also be willing to change it. Enjoy the rainbows butterfly brings you

The Cat

The lucky black cat
The lucky black cat
Source: by annmackiemiller

The Cat as an animal totem

The CAT - ‘INDEPENDENCE’
If you have chosen cat you are being asked to assert your individuality. Cat can spend hours pampering herself and perhaps it is time to do that for you. You are allowed to take a break from caring for others to care for yourself. Rediscover the delight of simple things like light and shadow. Look at everything with the eyes of cat, full of curiosity and innocence.

The Crow

Corvus corax
Source: Wiki Commons

The Crow as an animal totem

The CROW - ‘BALANCE’
Hidden in the feathers of crow are rainbows. If you have chosen crow you are being asked to look beyond the obvious. Learn the balance of life just as crow can look at both sides. You already have the knowledge of what is right and wrong for you. Be willing to speak out, to acknowledge your own truth. Your personal integrity will never fail you.

The Deer

Red Deer at Hellafield
Red Deer at Hellafield
Source: annmackiemiller

The Deer as a animal totem

The DEER - ‘UNCONDITIONAL LOVE’
If you have chosen deer you are being asked to find the gentleness within you that can heal every wound. You have all the tools you need to solve your present difficulty. Go inside yourself to seek the answer. Stop pushing others to change. Unconditional love lets you accept them as they are just as you also accept yourself, just as you are.

Holly the white boxer cross

Holly the white boxer cross
Source: photography by annmackiemiller

The Dog as an animal totem

The DOG - ‘LOYALTY’
If you have chosen dog you are being asked to look at your service to others. Dog has a deep compassion and tolerance of human weakness. However, dog also seeks approval. It is time to seek the approval of the most important person in your life - YOU. Spend some time on your own needs. This does not betray the trust others place in you.

The Dolphin

Pink Dolphin
Source: wiki commons

The Dolphin as an animal totem

The DOLPHIN - ‘RHYTHM’
If dolphin has appeared today perhaps it is time to be mindful of your body rhythms and energy patterns. She represents a communication between spirit and sky so perhaps she is asking you to be aware of your physical needs as well as your spiritual ones. You can be like dolphin and enjoy playfulness. Like dolphin breath out as you surface, releasing your tensions and breath in joy and laughter.

White Tailed Eagle in Flight

Juvenile White Tailed Eagle in Flight
Juvenile White Tailed Eagle in Flight
Source: photography by annmackiemiller

The Eagle as an animal totem

The EAGLE - ‘COURAGE’
Eagle can see forever. Eagle tells you that you can soar in the heavens but still keep a connection to the earth. You are being asked to take heart and gather your courage to take a leap of faith. Attend to daily needs but do not forget the magnificence of flight. You have the ability to set yourself free from mundane existence and join the excitement of the universe.

The Elephant

African Elephant
Source: wiki commons

The Elephant as an animal totem

The ELEPHANT -‘REMEMBERANCE’
If elephant has appeared today you are being asked to remember the past. Take note of all your achievements. Acknowledge that every step you have taken has brought you to this place. It is time though to unload the heavy baggage of the past, which is holding you back. You can pass the burden to elephant. The action of handing it over will release you.

The Fish

The Fish
The Fish
Source: wiki commons

The Fish as an animal totem

The FISH - ‘ADAPTABILITY’
Just as some birds can swim, some fish can fly. If you have chosen fish you are being asked to be adaptable. Know that there are no limitations, only those you place on yourself. If you choose you can enjoy the fluidity of water and the energy of air. Remember you can always stay in the shadow of the bank for a while to rest.

The Fox

Vulpes velox
Vulpes velox
Source: wiki commons

The Fox as an animal totem

The FOX - ‘CAUTION’
Fox es asking you to be careful. Fox chooses when he wishes to be seen. Learn from him. Look around you before you make a major decision. Perhaps you are being asked to be cautious as to whom you take into your confidence. Do not allow anyone to betray your trust. Do not settle for anything less than you are willing to give. Hold out for what is important to you.

The Frog

 Gladiator tree Frog
Gladiator tree Frog
Source: wiki commons

The Frog as an animal totem

The FROG - ‘CLEANSING’
With her affinity to water frog can help you clear away emotional baggage. She is used to transformation and can prepare you for what lies ahead. If frog has appeared to you today perhaps she is asking you to make a preparation for change. Your life is about to take on a new dimension and now is the time to look at where you are today.

The Hawk

Accipiter virgatus
Source: wiki commons

The Hawk as an animal totem

The HAWK - ‘MESSENGER’
Hawk is the messenger bringing you insight. When hawk appears he is trying to tell you something. Look out for the signals and be aware of all around you. Hawk can hover high in the air so perhaps it is time to take stock of your life. Can you see what holds you back? If you look at you life from a different vantage point you may see there is nothing to stop you flying high.

The Monkey

Squirrel Monkeys
Squirrel Monkeys
Source: wiki commons

The Monkey as an animal totem

The MONKEY - ‘MISCHIEF’
If you have chosen monkey today perhaps you are being asked to look at life from both sides. Monkey can hang upside down and get a different perspective on life. Are you being asked to look again at one of life’s problems? Perhaps your understanding has been turned around. Time to get a real grip on the situation. You can do it.

The Mouse

The Mouse in my garden
The Mouse in my garden
Source: annmackiemiller

The Mouse as an animal totem

The MOUSE - ‘SCRUTINY’
The mouse is used to examining everything in detail. If you have chosen mouse as your totem you are being asked to pay attention to detail but you should also be aware of the overall picture. You may be hiding your fear of life in an well-organised lifestyle. Remember to look above you. Not everything is right under your nose. There may be a completely new world waiting for you to discover.

Asian Otter at Martin Mere

Asian otter at Martin Mere reserve
Asian otter at Martin Mere reserve
Source: photography by annmackiemiller

The Otter as an animal totem

The OTTER - ‘INNOCENCE’
Otter is playful and curious and will never start a fight unless provoked. You are being asked to call on your patience with other’s shortcomings. Accept others with the innocence of otter. Stop worrying at life and enjoy the sunshine on water that can be with us every day. Put aside material clutter that stops you from moving freely. Keep about you only that which is useful or gives you pleasure.

The Owl

baby owl
Source: annmackiemiller

The Owl as an animal totem

The OWL - ‘WISDOM’
The owl is expert at seeing what others cannot. If you have chosen the owl no-one will be able to deceive you for long especially re motives for behaviour. You may not always be the most comfortable person to be around but you are being asked to use your powers of observation in your own life. Pay attention and do not be afraid to share your wisdom with other when it is appropriate.


The Pig

The Pig
The Pig
Source: wiki commons

The Pig as an animal totem

The PIG - ‘CONTENTMENT’
Although pig is the epitome of contentment this does not mean the same as complacency. Acknowledge and be grateful for all your blessings but be open to the possibility of change. You are a wonderful creation with the ability to root out the gold from the mud. Seek answers within yourself. You may be surprised by what you find.

The Raven

the raven
Source: wiki commons

The Raven as an animal totem

The RAVEN - ‘MAGIC’
The raven brings magic into your life. It is time to acknowledge the magic all around you. Raven has arrived to act as your guide while you seek answers. You may be about to experience a change in the level of consciousness. Something special is about to happen. Do not be afraid of it, raven will protect you. Use raven to carry a message or healing energy

The Snail

snail
Source: wiki commons

The Snail as an animal totem

The SNAIL - ‘PATIENCE’
If you have picked snail you are being asked to be patient. A slow steady progress is just as valid as a swift race to the end. At snail’s pace you are less likely to miss the joys along the pathway. Take time to watch a flower grow. Remember that all winter it waits in patience beneath the ground. In spring it comes forth to bring us all joy. Snail can teach you to honour the circle of life.

The Snake

Cobra, Indian Cobra or Spectacled Cobra, Naja naja, Family: Elapidae
Source: wiki commons

The Snake as an animal totem

The SNAKE - ‘CHANGE’
Just as snake sheds his skin every year so too can you. If this is want you want, you can set aside your old skin and use this bright shining new one to represent a new beginning. Before change is always a time of introspection. Use this time to delve into your inner self. Set aside old angers, guilts and hurts that hold you back. Remember you can do this many times.

The Turtle

Chelonia mydas (Hawaiian variety)
Source: wiki commons

The Turtle as an animal totem

The TURTLE - ‘EARTH ENERGY’
Turtle is the oldest symbol of earth and reminds us that as we come from the earth, so we return. If you have chosen turtle you are being asked to honour mother earth and all her creations. This includes you. Ensure you care for your own health and well being as well as you do for others. Allow turtle to protect you from envy, jealousy and hurt by others

The Wolf

wolf in Spanish zoo
wolf in Spanish zoo
Source: wiki commons

The Wolf as an animal totem

The WOLF - ‘TEACHER’
If you have chosen wolf you are seeking answers in your life. Be open to every possibility. Do not be afraid to share your experiences with others. While wolf is an individual it also works within a society. Know the times to share and the times to stand apart. Use this time to seek the teacher within you. You have far greater wisdom than you know.

The Spider

spider
spider
Source: wiki commons

The Spider as an animal totem

The SPIDER - ‘CREATIVITY’
Spider invented the alphabet so if you choose spider today you are being asked to keep a record of your journey. Hidden within your record you will find the infinite possibilities of life. It is easy to get caught up in the web of life.
Acknowledge that you have the ability to change it at any time. You may be being asked to allow your creative nature to shine.
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Monday, 12 January 2015

Self Help Tip: Keeping a Journal

How to Keep a Journal for 

Self Help and Self Development


diary and pen
my journal and pen
The first thing I get clients on my YOUR Life in YOUR Hands course to do is to start keeping a journal so if you would like to take the first step on a journey of self help and self development, here are some tips to help you do just that.

Tuesday, 6 January 2015

My Daily Affirmation: 6th January

Daily Affirmations and what they mean 

Affirmation Cards
Affirmation Cards
I have a basket full of affirmation cards I have picked up over the years, some are bought, some given, some I even made myself. Every day I pick one and sometimes they don't make me feel comfortable which is an indication I should probably be looking at why that is. For the next few weeks, in the darkest days of winter, I plan to share with you the card I pick for the day and the thoughts and feelings it stimulates. Maybe this is something you would like to copy as you reach for better health in mind, body and spirit.

Sunday, 21 September 2014

10 ways to love yourself

TEN POINT GUIDE TO LOVING YOURSELF

LOVE from freedigitalphotos.net
Learning to love yourself is vital for self esteem. It isn't selfish, it is common sense. I've put together an easy to remember 10 point guide to help you learn to love YOU. 

We spend most of our time caring for other people and don't take enough time to think about caring for ourselves. The key to full health in mind and body is to learn to love YOU first and foremost. We have been conditioned to put ourselves way down the list but your life will work much better if you actually care about yourself. 

Remember how, on a flight the air-hostess tells you, if you are travelling with children and an emergency occurs so you need to use the oxygen mask, put your own on first? You would be of little help to them if you are oxygen deprived. So too in life - you are better able to care for others if you are in balance and harmony in your own life.  

1.         STOP ALL CRITICISM
                        Criticism never changes a thing.  Refuse to criticise yourself.  Accept yourself as you are.  Everyone changes - every single day.  When you criticise yourself your changes are negative.  When you approve of yourself your changes are positive.

2.         DON'T SCARE YOURSELF
                        Stop terrorising yourself with your thoughts.  It's a depressing way to live.  Find a mental image that gives you pleasure and immediately switch your scary thoughts to pleasant thoughts.

3.         BE GENTLE AND KIND AND PATIENT
                        Be gentle with yourself.  Be kind and patient.  You are learning a new skill - you won't get everything right every single time but there is no need to knock yourself over the head every time you falter - that is setting you up for FAILURE - there is no such thing.  Treat yourself as you would someone you love very much and are helping to learn like a child learning to walk.

4.         BE KIND TO YOUR MIND
                        Self hatred is only hating you own thoughts.  Don't hate yourself for having thoughts - gently change them.

5.         PRAISE YOURSELF
                        Criticism of any kind breaks down the inner spirit.  Praise builds it up.  give yourself credit for all the good you are - tell yourself how well you are doing even in the little things and really celebrate the big ones.

6.         SUPPORT YOURSELF
                        Find ways to support yourself.  Reach out to friends and allow them to help you.  It is actually being strong to ask for help when you need it.  Find ways for self nourishing.

7.         BE LOVING TO YOUR NEGATIVES
                        Acknowledge that you create negatives to fulfil a need.  Now you are finding new positive ways to fulfil the same needs.  Lovingly release the old negative patterns.

8.         TAKE CARE OF YOUR BODY
                        Learn about yourself - what your needs are and how you can meet them.  Make it a joy not a chore.  Cherish and revere the temple you live in and it will reward you with joy.

9.         MIRROR WORK
                        Look into your eyes often.  Express this growing sense of love you have for yourself.  Forgive yourself while looking in the mirror.  Talk to your parents while looking in the mirror,  Forgive them too.  At lease once a day say 'I love you, I really love you' to yourself  looking directly into your eyes.

10.       LOVE YOURSELF...DO IT NOW!
                        Don't wait until you get well or lose weight or get a new job or relationship.  Begin now and do the very best you can.




Monday, 15 September 2014

Self Care: Taking Charge of YOUR Life

TAKING CHARGE


Jump Start from freedigitalphotos.net
I've said it before and I'll say it again - each and every one of us is 100% responsible for ourselves. Forget about the caring and sharing that is different. Ultimately the buck stops here. YOU and no one else but you needs to take charge of your life and make all the decisions, all the mistakes and take all the opportunities.

Just taking that first decision to take charge, to stop being a victim is liberating. It's hard, yes I know it's hard, but ultimately it is the only way you can live your life. Take help and advice where ever and whenever you can, talk to people, to guides even, but know that whatever road you do take, it is your decision to take it.
As an aside, the reason they are called guides, is because that is their job, not to take charge, but to guide your path, to give advice, comfort even. If a guide makes the decision for you, he, she or it needs to be fired.

Acting on someone else's advice only gives you another target to shoot at if it doesn't turn out as you expected. You cannot pass on the responsibility for yourself. You can shift the load for a while maybe, but somewhere down the road it will all come back to you.
And remember the road NOT travelled may well have to be travelled another time, if not in this lifetime then in another one.

And the positive spin on all that? Isn't it exciting? Life as an adventure with an endless variety of paths to tread and all of them here just for our own lesson, our own individual achievement so that we can each evolve as a human being and as a light being? At the end of this life, you will be able to appraise it and be able to say 'OK is wasn't always easy but I learned this or I learned that.' Or even, ' I choose not to learn that this time - maybe I will the next time.'

I can fly - by annmackiemiller

How do you take charge of your life?


  • First and foremost you need to learn yourself. Be totally aware of what your body, your mind and spirit are telling you. You have the most immense wisdom within you and you do have the capacity to access it.
  • Physically know what foods your body responds well to. Take the time to work out those that hinder your health, for example, dairy products, wheat, yeast or sugar. You don't have to produce severe symptoms or allergic reactions to have a sensitivity to certain foods. You can tell by really listening to how your body reacts after taking these foods, try one a time to eliminate them.  For example you might feel slow and sluggish the day after eating lots of dairy products and so on. 
  • Further look after the physical body by taking some exercise. It doesn't need to be strenuous, start with 5 minutes a day with simple stretching and breathing exercises, Tai Chi or Yoga. Take a 20-minute walk 3 times a week or swim 3 times a week, both gentle exercise but two of the most effective in stimulating the whole body. Once you overcome the initial inertia that we all suffer from, you will find the more you do, the more exercise you want to do.
  • Know when to rest. Pushing yourself to the limit isn't wise. If you don't take time to relax you will find nature will find a way to force you into it.
  • Play. Just as important as work.
  • Pamper yourself occasionally - you deserve it and you need it. It doesn’t need to cost anything. simply having a bubble bath or taking a night off works.
  • Learn to listen to your inner self with meditation or with divination. These are tools to help you hear yourself. Meditation can be simply sitting quietly and allowing your breath to be relaxed, you enter a sort of half waking state where the right side of your brain, that is the intuitive side, can come to the fore. At first it may only appear as flashes but as you continue to exercise your mind in this way, the messages will become clearer.
  • Find out some simple forms of divination - there is nothing spooky about it all, it is all rather magical - and you can use anything from a dictionary to animal guide cards to crystals. All you need do is be aware that you are asking for some message, hint or tip for that day or that situation. Then pick up a dictionary or other book, open it at random and read what your eye fixes on first.
  • Learn to trust your instincts. Usually the first thing that pops into your head is the right one for you at that time. It is usually when we start to intellectualize things that we introduce doubts and make it more difficult for us to reach decisions. For me, the telephone seems to work really well but I seldom seem to trust it. I KNOW in my heart of hearts that if I can't get through on the phone there is a reason for it - maybe I need to think things through more, maybe it is not the right time for me to take action, maybe I need to leave someone alone. I find if I persevere until I do reach that person, something doesn't quite click, they will tell me they can't meet me as I want them to, or that this is a bad time for them. The same goes with the Internet which is really just another phone line isn't it? A community website I edit was 'stuck' showing only the home page for three weeks, until I took out the page telling the world I was selling the post office and it published first time. The universe does it's very best to save me time and effort. It's not its fault if I am sometimes slow on the uptake.
  • Keep a journal or diary. This is an excellent way to getting to know yourself or at least at listening to yourself. It doesn't have to be elaborate - it doesn't even have to be grammatical. No one else will ever see it but it is revealing to keep going back to it after several months. You'll be amazed at the journeys you have taken.

There is a saying in Reiki circles, when you heal yourself, you heal the world. This is only the beginning.

This is part of the self-care programme Your Life in Your Hands from Ann Mackie Miller MA(hons) RGN, SCM, GSSR which will appear in book form later this year.