Showing posts with label self help. Show all posts
Showing posts with label self help. Show all posts

Saturday, 10 October 2015

How to Use Animal Totems in Self Help

How to use animal totems

 in personal growth, self healing and development

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For those of us who are searching for reasons, answers and direction in our lives, one common theme keeps reappearing. That is, the belief that there are external forces that exist that are there to help us. They are not in place to take the decisions in life for us, that would defeat the purpose which is to learn lessons, to take responsibility for your life and to grow and develop.
Once you have set your foot on this path of discovery, one of the tools you can use is to access this wisdom are animal totums. Each of us may well have a single animal who is relevant to our lives but more likely there is an animal that is germane to a particular period in your life - to one particular point in time. If they are messages - they must change.
You can construct your own animal totem cards: these are ones I have created. You may print them out onto cards and use them for a daily 'reading' - pick one each day to see what is relevant for you on that day. There are many others on sale, the best of which is the famous ones from Jamie Sams and David Carson - Medicine Cards. 

Also be aware of everything around you. The universe is designed to send us messages to help us in our personal growth towards enlightenment. If you keep seeing the same animal - perhaps on bill-boards, in dreams or in reality, or in pictures or on TV, maybe someone or something is trying to tell you something. Maybe it is your God, maybe it is your own inner wisdom, who can tell? But the messages are there, all around you when you are willing to listen. On the other side, if an animal is bugging you - if you feel an unusual aversion to it, perhaps you should look at something within yourself that is giving you that reaction. For example, if you have a phobia about spiders, are you also shying away from all that is creative within and about you? Just food for thought.
There is a saying in metaphysics -
If you listen to the whispers ... life won't have to shout at you.

Images From Wikimedia Commons

Please note the images used here are via Wiki Commons unless otherwise stated

The bear

Ursus arctos - Norway
Ursus arctos - Norway
Source: Wiki Media

The Bear as a totem animal

The BEAR - ‘STRENGTH’

Bear allows you the time to be still for a while. There is great strength within you. Perhaps you are being asked to provide a strong back for someone else to lean on. This need never drain your own power since you have the ability to delve deep inside yourself for the well of hidden strength. As you accept this strength you will find you can use it with the gentleness of bear.

The Beaver

The Beaver
The Beaver
Source: Wiki Media

The Beaver as a totem animal

The BEAVER - The ‘BUILDER’
If you have chosen beaver you will have a strong sense of family and home. While you are industrious and protective allow yourself time to view all your accomplishments. Enjoy a sense of achievement which comes with a building a strong family life that YOU helped to create. You are being asked to acknowledge your gifts. Continue to encourage a sense of community and unity in all you do.

Butterfly image

Butterfly on thistle
Butterfly on thistle
Source: photography by annmackiemiller

The Butterfly as an animal totem

The BUTTERFLY -‘TRANSFORMATION’
If you have chosen the butterfly you are ready to make changes in your life. You may not yet be aware of the direction of change but allow butterfly to lead you. It is an exciting and colourful time. The true secret of transformation is to know your own mind but also be willing to change it. Enjoy the rainbows butterfly brings you

The Cat

The lucky black cat
The lucky black cat
Source: by annmackiemiller

The Cat as an animal totem

The CAT - ‘INDEPENDENCE’
If you have chosen cat you are being asked to assert your individuality. Cat can spend hours pampering herself and perhaps it is time to do that for you. You are allowed to take a break from caring for others to care for yourself. Rediscover the delight of simple things like light and shadow. Look at everything with the eyes of cat, full of curiosity and innocence.

The Crow

Corvus corax
Source: Wiki Commons

The Crow as an animal totem

The CROW - ‘BALANCE’
Hidden in the feathers of crow are rainbows. If you have chosen crow you are being asked to look beyond the obvious. Learn the balance of life just as crow can look at both sides. You already have the knowledge of what is right and wrong for you. Be willing to speak out, to acknowledge your own truth. Your personal integrity will never fail you.

The Deer

Red Deer at Hellafield
Red Deer at Hellafield
Source: annmackiemiller

The Deer as a animal totem

The DEER - ‘UNCONDITIONAL LOVE’
If you have chosen deer you are being asked to find the gentleness within you that can heal every wound. You have all the tools you need to solve your present difficulty. Go inside yourself to seek the answer. Stop pushing others to change. Unconditional love lets you accept them as they are just as you also accept yourself, just as you are.

Holly the white boxer cross

Holly the white boxer cross
Source: photography by annmackiemiller

The Dog as an animal totem

The DOG - ‘LOYALTY’
If you have chosen dog you are being asked to look at your service to others. Dog has a deep compassion and tolerance of human weakness. However, dog also seeks approval. It is time to seek the approval of the most important person in your life - YOU. Spend some time on your own needs. This does not betray the trust others place in you.

The Dolphin

Pink Dolphin
Source: wiki commons

The Dolphin as an animal totem

The DOLPHIN - ‘RHYTHM’
If dolphin has appeared today perhaps it is time to be mindful of your body rhythms and energy patterns. She represents a communication between spirit and sky so perhaps she is asking you to be aware of your physical needs as well as your spiritual ones. You can be like dolphin and enjoy playfulness. Like dolphin breath out as you surface, releasing your tensions and breath in joy and laughter.

White Tailed Eagle in Flight

Juvenile White Tailed Eagle in Flight
Juvenile White Tailed Eagle in Flight
Source: photography by annmackiemiller

The Eagle as an animal totem

The EAGLE - ‘COURAGE’
Eagle can see forever. Eagle tells you that you can soar in the heavens but still keep a connection to the earth. You are being asked to take heart and gather your courage to take a leap of faith. Attend to daily needs but do not forget the magnificence of flight. You have the ability to set yourself free from mundane existence and join the excitement of the universe.

The Elephant

African Elephant
Source: wiki commons

The Elephant as an animal totem

The ELEPHANT -‘REMEMBERANCE’
If elephant has appeared today you are being asked to remember the past. Take note of all your achievements. Acknowledge that every step you have taken has brought you to this place. It is time though to unload the heavy baggage of the past, which is holding you back. You can pass the burden to elephant. The action of handing it over will release you.

The Fish

The Fish
The Fish
Source: wiki commons

The Fish as an animal totem

The FISH - ‘ADAPTABILITY’
Just as some birds can swim, some fish can fly. If you have chosen fish you are being asked to be adaptable. Know that there are no limitations, only those you place on yourself. If you choose you can enjoy the fluidity of water and the energy of air. Remember you can always stay in the shadow of the bank for a while to rest.

The Fox

Vulpes velox
Vulpes velox
Source: wiki commons

The Fox as an animal totem

The FOX - ‘CAUTION’
Fox es asking you to be careful. Fox chooses when he wishes to be seen. Learn from him. Look around you before you make a major decision. Perhaps you are being asked to be cautious as to whom you take into your confidence. Do not allow anyone to betray your trust. Do not settle for anything less than you are willing to give. Hold out for what is important to you.

The Frog

 Gladiator tree Frog
Gladiator tree Frog
Source: wiki commons

The Frog as an animal totem

The FROG - ‘CLEANSING’
With her affinity to water frog can help you clear away emotional baggage. She is used to transformation and can prepare you for what lies ahead. If frog has appeared to you today perhaps she is asking you to make a preparation for change. Your life is about to take on a new dimension and now is the time to look at where you are today.

The Hawk

Accipiter virgatus
Source: wiki commons

The Hawk as an animal totem

The HAWK - ‘MESSENGER’
Hawk is the messenger bringing you insight. When hawk appears he is trying to tell you something. Look out for the signals and be aware of all around you. Hawk can hover high in the air so perhaps it is time to take stock of your life. Can you see what holds you back? If you look at you life from a different vantage point you may see there is nothing to stop you flying high.

The Monkey

Squirrel Monkeys
Squirrel Monkeys
Source: wiki commons

The Monkey as an animal totem

The MONKEY - ‘MISCHIEF’
If you have chosen monkey today perhaps you are being asked to look at life from both sides. Monkey can hang upside down and get a different perspective on life. Are you being asked to look again at one of life’s problems? Perhaps your understanding has been turned around. Time to get a real grip on the situation. You can do it.

The Mouse

The Mouse in my garden
The Mouse in my garden
Source: annmackiemiller

The Mouse as an animal totem

The MOUSE - ‘SCRUTINY’
The mouse is used to examining everything in detail. If you have chosen mouse as your totem you are being asked to pay attention to detail but you should also be aware of the overall picture. You may be hiding your fear of life in an well-organised lifestyle. Remember to look above you. Not everything is right under your nose. There may be a completely new world waiting for you to discover.

Asian Otter at Martin Mere

Asian otter at Martin Mere reserve
Asian otter at Martin Mere reserve
Source: photography by annmackiemiller

The Otter as an animal totem

The OTTER - ‘INNOCENCE’
Otter is playful and curious and will never start a fight unless provoked. You are being asked to call on your patience with other’s shortcomings. Accept others with the innocence of otter. Stop worrying at life and enjoy the sunshine on water that can be with us every day. Put aside material clutter that stops you from moving freely. Keep about you only that which is useful or gives you pleasure.

The Owl

baby owl
Source: annmackiemiller

The Owl as an animal totem

The OWL - ‘WISDOM’
The owl is expert at seeing what others cannot. If you have chosen the owl no-one will be able to deceive you for long especially re motives for behaviour. You may not always be the most comfortable person to be around but you are being asked to use your powers of observation in your own life. Pay attention and do not be afraid to share your wisdom with other when it is appropriate.


The Pig

The Pig
The Pig
Source: wiki commons

The Pig as an animal totem

The PIG - ‘CONTENTMENT’
Although pig is the epitome of contentment this does not mean the same as complacency. Acknowledge and be grateful for all your blessings but be open to the possibility of change. You are a wonderful creation with the ability to root out the gold from the mud. Seek answers within yourself. You may be surprised by what you find.

The Raven

the raven
Source: wiki commons

The Raven as an animal totem

The RAVEN - ‘MAGIC’
The raven brings magic into your life. It is time to acknowledge the magic all around you. Raven has arrived to act as your guide while you seek answers. You may be about to experience a change in the level of consciousness. Something special is about to happen. Do not be afraid of it, raven will protect you. Use raven to carry a message or healing energy

The Snail

snail
Source: wiki commons

The Snail as an animal totem

The SNAIL - ‘PATIENCE’
If you have picked snail you are being asked to be patient. A slow steady progress is just as valid as a swift race to the end. At snail’s pace you are less likely to miss the joys along the pathway. Take time to watch a flower grow. Remember that all winter it waits in patience beneath the ground. In spring it comes forth to bring us all joy. Snail can teach you to honour the circle of life.

The Snake

Cobra, Indian Cobra or Spectacled Cobra, Naja naja, Family: Elapidae
Source: wiki commons

The Snake as an animal totem

The SNAKE - ‘CHANGE’
Just as snake sheds his skin every year so too can you. If this is want you want, you can set aside your old skin and use this bright shining new one to represent a new beginning. Before change is always a time of introspection. Use this time to delve into your inner self. Set aside old angers, guilts and hurts that hold you back. Remember you can do this many times.

The Turtle

Chelonia mydas (Hawaiian variety)
Source: wiki commons

The Turtle as an animal totem

The TURTLE - ‘EARTH ENERGY’
Turtle is the oldest symbol of earth and reminds us that as we come from the earth, so we return. If you have chosen turtle you are being asked to honour mother earth and all her creations. This includes you. Ensure you care for your own health and well being as well as you do for others. Allow turtle to protect you from envy, jealousy and hurt by others

The Wolf

wolf in Spanish zoo
wolf in Spanish zoo
Source: wiki commons

The Wolf as an animal totem

The WOLF - ‘TEACHER’
If you have chosen wolf you are seeking answers in your life. Be open to every possibility. Do not be afraid to share your experiences with others. While wolf is an individual it also works within a society. Know the times to share and the times to stand apart. Use this time to seek the teacher within you. You have far greater wisdom than you know.

The Spider

spider
spider
Source: wiki commons

The Spider as an animal totem

The SPIDER - ‘CREATIVITY’
Spider invented the alphabet so if you choose spider today you are being asked to keep a record of your journey. Hidden within your record you will find the infinite possibilities of life. It is easy to get caught up in the web of life.
Acknowledge that you have the ability to change it at any time. You may be being asked to allow your creative nature to shine.
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Sunday, 8 March 2015

Cranberries and Their Use in Treating Urinary Tract Infections

Can Cranberries Really Help with Urinary Tract Infections?

cranberries on the bush
cranberries on the bush from Pixabay.com
This is one of my occasionally posts on specific medical problems. I have often been asked if natural remedies really work, in this case using cranberries as part of a treatment programme when you have a urinary tract infection. Do they really work? Providing you are not using sweetened cranberry juice since the sugar has the opposite effect, I would say, yes to that.

Monday, 19 January 2015

SIGNS, SYMBOLS & SYNCHRONICITY

SIGNS, SYMBOLS & SYNCHRONICITY

inspiration poster
affirmation poster from annmackiemiller
There is a saying in metaphysics, if you listen to the whispers life won't have to shout at you. 

I believe that all around us are messages, whispers sent by the Universe as hints and clues to help and guide us. 

If our role on earth is to evole, to follow our own path towards - if not enlightnment then at least to learning life lessons - these messages help us along the path. You can make the choice to actively listen to the whispers by paying attention to signs, symbols and any incidents of synchronicity that appear in your life. 

Here I discuss what all that means to me and how you too can use them on this journey called life. 

Wednesday, 14 January 2015

How to Use Affirmation Cards or Divination Cards in Meditation for Self Help

How to meditate for self help, self healing, self development and growth

oriental woman meditating from freedigitalpictures.net
Woman Meditating from FreeDigitalPictures.net
Phew that was a long-winded title but as close as I can get to my intention. Meditation is a wonderful tool for getting in touch with your inner feelings and can be used extensively to harness your inner strength and wisdom. Here I give you a step-by-step meditation using affirmation cards or other divination tools.

Monday, 12 January 2015

My Daily Affirmation 12 January

Self Help with Affirmations & Other Cards

Every morning I pick out a card from my basket as part of my self help, self development strategy. Most of the time they are affiramation cards, something I will repeat constantly throughout the day to make it so. But they are also to reflect on what they mean for me personally and try to figure out why they have appeared today. In the same basket are self help cards and other divination cards, primarily crystals and animal totems. Today's card is an exercise in self help. Want to join me?

The Main Thing... Affirmation Exercise
The Main Thing... Affirmation Exercise



Of course my very first reaction is probably the same as everyone else - not a lot. It made me feel uncomfortable that I would need to sit and think about some positive aspects of me - but - here goes.

Appearance wise - I have to say my legs! I've always had good legs and grew up in the age of mini skirts, even our nurses uniforms were short!. Today they are the only parts of my body that have aged well. It's like having two different hemispheres - slim and shaply legs and ankles and blob above - well less blob than a few months ago but still not exactly a matching set.

Now that whole paragraph is telling and something I obviously still need to consider. Why did I feel compelled to add a negative onto a positive? We all do it, the trick is - if you turn up something you don't like, either do something to change it ( like me and my 5:2 diet) or learn to live and accept it.

I was tempted to go with this exercise and I probably will in my personal journal - I like my compassion, my principles and ethics and a whole lot more. But it is the physical that I stumble on most and if it makes me so uncomfortable that I am having trouble expressing it - then I really need to look more closely at why it is important to my personal self esteem and what I can do about it to change my reaction. So I will take today to react to this card and


 maybe today my card will read

self help affirmation card



annmackiemiller Dundee 1973
Nursing Graduation in Dundee 1973



Self Help Tip: Keeping a Journal

How to Keep a Journal for 

Self Help and Self Development


diary and pen
my journal and pen
The first thing I get clients on my YOUR Life in YOUR Hands course to do is to start keeping a journal so if you would like to take the first step on a journey of self help and self development, here are some tips to help you do just that.

Saturday, 10 January 2015

My Daily Affirmation: 10th January

Affirmation


pansies with quote
Affirmation card: today I will reach out my hand

As always I need to think about my card today. At first glance it is simple - I will reach out my hand. 

Why? My first instinct is - to help someone in need, that is the compulsive carer in me and probably something I do best. Admittedly I do most of that at a distance these days. It is easier for me to be anonymous, to remain hidden online or in the background where I don't actually have to make contact in any sort of physical or emotional sense. Life experience has left me battered and bruised and I have chosen to retreat into my shell to protect myself.

So... if we are talking life lessons heres - perhaps today's card is less about me reaching out my hand to help, but reaching out my hand to connect - to accept that sometimes I am the one in need of that compulsive caring. 

Wednesday, 7 January 2015

My Daily Affirmation: 7th January

Using Affirmations for Self Help


scene isle of may from Crail
affirmation card: the power of the Universe by annmackiemiller
I am reminded this morning that I am not alone. It is so easy when you are on a journey of self discovery to think that you are - all alone that is. Yet everything in the Universe is geared to supporting and nourishing us. From the beauty of a seascape to the food that we eat, the people we meet, the joys we encounter and the messages it sends us.

I made up this card using a photo I took of the Isle of May in the Firth of Forth Scotland because it reminded me of the joy of natural things that surround us. In my striving for a healthier lifestyle I am reminded that the universe provides me with all I need. The people that come into my life - and yours - are exactly those that support me or have come to teach me something. All around are simple joys to enjoy - the birds on my bird feeders, the cat lying in my lap as I try to type this around her. And the messages - well - I believe the Universe is our guide and sends us messages - as it does when you use  affirmation cards as a tool for self -help and divination.  I'll be writing more about Signs, Symbols and Synchronisitic in anther post.

Yesterday in considering my affirmation I realised that I am happy in my isolation - Today this card appeared to remind me that although that is so - I am never really alone and today I am rejoicing in the peace and inner calm this realization brings me.

Tuesday, 6 January 2015

My Daily Affirmation: 6th January

Daily Affirmations and what they mean 

Affirmation Cards
Affirmation Cards
I have a basket full of affirmation cards I have picked up over the years, some are bought, some given, some I even made myself. Every day I pick one and sometimes they don't make me feel comfortable which is an indication I should probably be looking at why that is. For the next few weeks, in the darkest days of winter, I plan to share with you the card I pick for the day and the thoughts and feelings it stimulates. Maybe this is something you would like to copy as you reach for better health in mind, body and spirit.

Wednesday, 24 September 2014

Learning to Live Positively: Step 1 Changing your inner language

LIVING POSITIVELY is a choice. 



 I'm sure everyone has noticed how much negativity surrounds us. It is like a virus. The good news is that is doesn't have to affect our lives. We all have the capacity to choose to live positively and in doing so, to improve the quality of our lives.

 Here's how to get started...

 In the first instance change your language especially the language inside your head.
Energy follows Thought
In other words, what you think is what you get. For example, if you wake in the morning telling yourself this will be a lousy day, that is exactly what you will have. On the other hand if you tell yourself this is a great day, the chances are that is what you will attract. At the very least you will be better able to cope with whatever comes your way.

 That is a two fold process. 
  1.  Firstly it hypes you up and lightens your mood. 
  2.  For those of you who still need the scientific explanation, it releases chemicals in the brain which make you feel better.
  3. Secondly it sends a message out to the universe and the universe will try to make it reality for you. Just remember, the universe always goes with whatever is for your highest good. So if it is not for your higher good to win the lottery this week, you won't. On the other hand if you don't buy a ticket, how will you know? 
  4.  You have the ability to harness your life with the strongest tool at your disposal, you mind.

Every thought you think is a point of power in your life.
Therefore it stands to reason that if you introduce positive language in your life and in your mind, positive things can happen. When you find yourself with a negative thought, turn it on its head into a positive one and see how much easier to cope with that is. For example turn chores into tasks; the second always feel more achievable than the first. It opens you up the possibility of enjoying an achievement rather than being dragged down by an obligation.

 Pick out several negative statements you use every day and change them into positive ones. Make it into a game with family and friends.

 One that springs instantly to mind for me is when you answer the phone and someone says, 'it's only me.' Why 'only'? Isn't it diminishing? By the simple expedient of leaving out one word the whole connotation of the conversation changes; if you like, it empowers the speaker - makes her stand taller, prouder.

 On your cheques where you write pay xyz number of pounds 'only' - change that to 'please' and it opens up your universe.

What others can you think of?